Lol, I'm sorry. Lets try this again. I didn't say it was fair, and I didn't say it was right. But the world isn't perfect, and not all girls are as self aware as others. You were asking how a guy can call a girl beautiful without it seeming like a ploy, and I was just trying to help. Most guys walking up to most girls and saying You're beautiful, she's going to think you're making it up, or that you say it to lots of girls.