I love candy but I don't like coconut or licorice, I don't know why. I've tried them and I they just don't do anything for me. I guess I'm a sugarphobe of some kind. Choosing one thing over another does not necessarily confer any moral judgement, it just means you are more physically attracted to one thing over another. Some people sexuality is cued up more visually, especially men. This is just another try at equal outcomes, the world doesn't work that way. If it's free it's not equal and if it's equal it's not free.